Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
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Thursday, January 8, 2015

A Year in Review..

Wow, what a year 2014 was!  I think it was one of the hardest, most exciting, blessed, amazing years of my life! I completed 'A Year in Review' blog post for 2011 and 2012, and must have overlooked 2013.  Since I skipped 2013, here are some key features!

1) I learned to love and appreciate the island over the course of this year.
2) In February, we rescued and adopted out a beautiful little island puppy!
3) In April, my mom came to visit and we had a wonderful time!
4) In April, we also got to take a trip to Florida to visit MomMom & PopPop and Joedy & Gerald.  It was a great two weeks!
5) In July, I did my first major hikes in St. Kitts, including hiking to the top of the Volcano!
6) August brought my time as a teacher at the Ross Prep School to an end... Very sad!
7) August 3rd was a big day!  It was the day I took my first pregnancy test...and it was POSITIVE!  August 6th, a second positive test began to confirm the pregnancy, and a blood test shortly after gave us the 100% positive!
8) End of August we took a weekend getaway to Nevis, paired with lots of nausea and sun!
9) September we found out we were having TWINS!!
10) October we shared the news with our families and friends.
11) November we found out we were having GIRLS!
12) November Joedy came to St. Kitts for her first visit and to take Brinley dog home for us!  Another great week!
13) December I said 'see ya later' to St. Kitts and headed home.  We were home for Christmas for the first time since 2011!







































In looking back, 2013 was a pretty great year too!  It seems our life keeps getting better and better!  I am certainly excited for the years ahead and to see what other great things are coming for us!

January 2014... We were so happy to be home for Christmas and New Years for the first time since 2011!  MomMom and PopPop made a winter trip to NY and our families were all together for a holiday!  Unfortunately, Brayton's time home was short and he had to venture back to St. Kitts to complete his final semester at Ross, but the girls and I stayed at home.  It was so incredibly hard to have him leave, but we needed to be close to good medical care.  It is a very good thing we didn't head back to the island because on January 24th I was take to Crouse Hospital by Ambulance from the ER for signs of pre-eclampsia..This began my hospital stay...


February 2014... The scariest, and best month of the year!  After three weeks of being told "plan on delivering tomorrow", "let's wait out delivery a couple more days" over and over, weeks of hospital bed rest and Brayton being in St. Kitts and me being in the hospital, we finally got to meet our girls! As the month of February progressed, the girls grew stronger and stronger but we also had to send Brayton back to the island for 7.5 weeks.  It was incredibly hard to send him off while his babies were in the NICU and know he wouldn't see them again for almost 2 months.  It broke my heart every single day and I don't know how he did it, and did it with strength.  We are so lucky to have an amazing Dad/Husband!




March 2014...The beginning of March was spent with more NICU time.  On March 16th, Elliana got to come home!  I then spent the next week and a half bouncing between NICU and Ellie at home.  It was one of the hardest 10 days!  On March 26th, Juliette got to come home!  Finally, we were ALMOST all together again!


April 2014... After a couple weeks of being home, we were settling in!  We had professional pictures taken at the beginning of the month and spent the next few weeks patiently waiting for Daddy to get home for good!  April 20th, we surprised him at the airport as he arrived home from St. Kitts FOR GOOD!

May 2014... Beginning of May we moved, yet again!, to our new place in Ithaca.  It was really great to finally be a family all under one roof, in our own 'home'.  We took the girls for their first trip to the zoo, celebrated Mother's Day, took advantage of our family time, and cherished each moment with our babies!  



June 2014... The month of June was lots of baby time!  I couldn't have asked for more!  We took advantage of the weather and took the girls on some of their first hikes.  We had a weekend in the hospital so Ellie could begin her Propranolol for her hemangioma, celebrated Fathers Day driving home from the hospital, celebrated Morgan's HS graduation, and Lyndi's wedding shower!


July 2014... July was a fairly uneventful month, spent again being Mom and Dad and cherishing our twincesses!  The girls did have their first swim in Aunt Lo's pool!  While it doesn't seem exciting, and nothing major happened, learning to be a Mom of twins was busy enough, and perfect enough!  Nothing else was needed!!


August 2014... August brought the girls first camping trips!  The beginning of August, Mom, Dad and Gram were camping in Ithaca and the girls loved hanging out at the campground, swimming in their kiddie pool and hanging out with family! We also had a spectacular river weekend!  The girls loved being out in the boat!  Later in the month we had our second camping adventure, this time at Cedar and staying at the campground the entire time!  The girls had a great time!






September 2014... What a great month this was, and so busy!  MomMom and PopPop came up North and spent a few days with us on their way up!  It was great to see them and have PopPop meet the girls and MomMom be able to see them again!  We also had professional pictures taken again by the wonderful Amanda Lessner!!  The ladies all celebrated Lyndi during her bachelorette party and the guys all celebrated Travis in his bachelor party.  The best part of the month was Lyndi and Travis' wedding!  It was a perfect day, and we all had such a wonderful time!





October 2014... October was also a busy month!  We began solids with the girls using the baby led weaning method, and they both started getting teeth!!  We took our first trip to Albany to visit Bit and Tim and see their new house.  The girls also had their first colds!  Mom and Dad spent a weekend in Ithaca for their 30th wedding anniversary and we took ourselves on a wine tour!  October, of course, also brought the girls first Halloween!  We didn't do anything except dress them up and take their pictures!



November 2014... November was a pretty mellow month!  We had a visit from the Szczepaniak's, had our first library trip, experienced our first snowfall of the winter, and of course had our first Thanksgiving!  We had so much to be thankful for this year!!




December 2014... I didn't do a Christmas blog, so I will catch up a bit here!  The beginning of the month was uneventful, we just hung out at home!  Bit came to visit us and we had so much fun with her here!  Christmas didn't really feel like Christmas this year.  There was no snow (which I am totally okay with!), we didn't exchange gifts with each other and only did a few small things for the girls.  We were also in Ithaca just the four of us, which was really nice, and it was just like a normal day!  Since the weather was so nice, we bundled the girls up and took the dogs and went on a nice hike!  It was so nice to spend Christmas day with our little family, enjoying the outdoors and making memories!  I would love to be able to hike or be outside every year on Christmas!  We headed home on the following Saturday and spent lots of time with our families.  We told our families to be light on the gifts as our place is small and we would be moving soon, multiple times...but they didn't listen!  It was the girls first Christmas, and they are the first set of grandkids, so I guess that is to be expected!  The girls were spoiled with gifts, but more importantly, we were all spoiled with a great deal of family time!

 

 

    

 
   



I truly believe that Christmas is SO much more than material gift receiving, and I really want to teach my children that.  As they get older, I plan to spend our holiday seasons giving to those who need it rather than piling our own home with gifts we don't really need.  I know Christmas is such an exciting time, but seeing people post pictures of their abundance of gifts all over Facebook made me feel so sad for the people viewing those, or the people in general, who weren't as fortunate.  So many people spend the holidays feeling the pressure of providing gifts for their children and families and society makes it so much harder.  I appreciate the excitement and feeling proud that one can provide so much for their families, I just wish it wasn't such a public announcement.  I saw this floating around a lot this season regarding gifts and I really like it. Give something they WANT, something they NEED, something to WEAR, and something to READ. I also really liked this....

Our time at home over the holidays was so busy, but it was a wonderful reminder of how incredibly loved our girls are, the people we have in our lives that are so important and that we need to truly cherish our moments with those special people.  



After a week of visiting, we were happy to come back to our quiet and the girls have both ended up with colds, so we are spending our week snuggling and getting better!  I hope everyone else had a wonderful holiday!  

As we move in 2015, I am so excited for the year ahead of us.  We have so many things we are looking forward to and many things in our life that will be changing!  Let us find the positive in life, strive to be better than we were today, reach our dreams and live life to the fullest! Happy 2015! 

   

Saturday, December 6, 2014

Giving Thanks

The past month is one where we all take the extra time to be thankful for the things we have, the people in our lives and the goodness that surrounds us.  While giving thanks is something we should all do more frequently, Thanksgiving tends to bring that out in us.  Over the past month I have tried to be more aware of the good things in my life, and let the stressful things fall to the wayside.  As we move into the month of December and Christmas is quickly coming, we are again recognizing the positive blessings we have in our life and giving thanks for those things.  Sometimes the stress of the season and the expectations society has put on Christmas, make us look at it all the wrong way.  Let us all try to take a step back, be grateful for the things we have in our lives, and not let the stressful things bring us down or take the positive spirit out of the Holidays!

This year, we have so much to be grateful for, blessing to be counted, and love to share!

We are in America!  It is hard to believe but this was our first Thanksgiving 'home' since November 2010!!  We were blessed to spend this Thanksgiving with Joedy and Gerald at our place in Ithaca.  It was just the 6 of us, with enough food for an army.  We have perfect, healthy, lovable, gorgeous baby girls that light up our life each and every day.  We have a roof over our head,  and food in our cupboards! We have vehicles that get us from point a to point b.  We have great animals, friends near and far, and great educations.  We are warm, clothed, and have a purpose in each day.  The list really goes on and on!

Unfortunately, we often take the blessings we have for granted and find the negative aspects of our life taking the forefront of our mind.  This year I have been struggling with this, but am trying very hard to be grateful for the things I have and remembering that the season of christmas is so much more than gifts and money.

It is my goal as I move through the month of December to find the good, be thankful for what I have, not let the stress of life take over, and cherish the moments with my family and friends.  I hope each of you can do that too.

This image has been floating around facebook and I really like it!
     

With the month of November already come and gone, and December quickly passing by I take this moment to be grateful for the best blessings in my life.   I am so grateful for my girls.  Each and every day they make me smile, laugh and give me purpose.  I am so grateful for an incredibly hard working husband, who is so close to the end of this very long journey of becoming a Doctor and I am so grateful for our families who do so much to support and love us.  







Thursday, December 26, 2013

Merry Christmas!

It is hard to believe that this was our first Christmas home in 3 years, it was our babies first "unofficial" Christmas, and we have our family here, in upstate NY, to its entirety.  It is hard to believe we have been home for a week and a half already, and I will be sending Brayton back to St. Kitts, alone, in 9 days and most likely won't see him again until we are parents.  It is also hard to believe that we come home and its been right around 0 degrees and we have an inch of ice covering everything!

The past two years for Christmas we were in the Caribbean, spending our days in the sun, and napping in preparation for J'Ouvert.  This year, we spent the day wearing fleece pajama pants, burrowed under blankets in front of the pellet stove keeping warm, while opening gifts with our family.  While it is a tough trade out, I am so thankful to be home!

The ice storm we were so blessed to receive last week is still lingering on all the trees and wires as the temperatures have not risen above 30 since we got home.  Later this week it is expected to warm up, so maybe the ice will melt!  It is beautiful out though!  The dogs are adjusting well to the cold, lots of visitors and tons of attention and I am very happy with their behavior and adjustments as I was a bit nervous!  They love their new winter coats and cuddling up on their new beds by the fire!

Life is good in Upstate NY and we are looking forward to our baby shower, visiting with more friends and another week of being together before the final semester of vet school, the last 3 months of pregnancy and anxiously awaiting the arrival of our baby girls!

Pictures tell the best stories.. Here it is!


Dec 21st Belly Bump!  End of week 23



Ice Storm - Dec 2013! 



Nevi was a happy dog when she finally got a nice fleece lined dog bed! 

Since our dogs aren't allowed on the furniture, Mom has been lying on the floor with them!  Spoiled <3

Christmas Eve - Representing the Matching Jammies (I am missing from this picture), sleeping/snoring Dad and Dogs and endless hours of games! 

Brinley found Christmas Eve cuddling to be difficult... Mouth open, snoring away! 

The hated selfie... Babies "first" Christmas Eve!
24 Weeks  

Merry Christmas from the Puppies! 

My favorite gift from Lyndi - Mama backing with girls charms and a turtle! <3

She didn't like my scarf

Prince Charming 

Lyndi and Travis

Bitty and Dad

Christmas morning is exhausting! 

The soon be to married couple! (also my sister and Brayton's brother.. keeping it in the family!)

Precious Puppies



Babies "first" Christmas Morning! <3 24 weeks, 3 days.



How far along? 24 weeks and 4 days
Maternity clothes? I might be in love with maternity clothes! 
Stretch marks? So far, so good!
Sleep? I am sick of waking up so much, but I splurged and bought myself a Bump Nest Pillow and I cannot wait for it to arrive! 
Miss Anything? Being allowed to lift/carry things on my own without getting reprimanded! 
Anything making you queasy or sick? Not a thing!
Mood? Happy, but dreading sending Brayton back to St. Kitts
Weekly Wisdom? Rest and relax while you can.. or at least that's what I am doing! 
Looking forward to? My body pillow arriving and my baby shower Sunday.
Total weight gain/loss? Still around 17-18 pounds
What’s new this week? We cleaned my parents basement where all of our stuff is stored and starting sorting out and organizing baby stuff.  Hard to believe we will have two babies small enough to fit all the cute clothes!
Measurements? 45 1/2" at the belly button
Best moment this week? Celebrating Christmas at home for the first time in 3 years and being with family and friends
Movement? Lots of movement!  
Food cravings? No
Gender? Still two girls
Labor Signs? No
Belly Button in or out? In for now! 
What is the baby up to? According to Parents.com and WebMD Pregnancy and Baby Center, babies are almost a foot long but their bodies are filling out proportionally and they'll soon start to plump up.  Their  brains are also growing quickly now, and their taste buds are continuing to develop. Their lungs are developing "branches" of the respiratory "tree" as well as cells that produce surfactant, a substance that will help their air sacs inflate once they hit the outside world.  Their skin is still thin and translucent, but that will start to change soon.  Babies are about 10.5-to-11.8-inches, weighing about 12.7 to 20.8 ounces and every week they get closer and closer to being ready to survive (and thrive!) in the outside world.  This week, babies have basic control over all of their senses: hearing, touch, taste, smell, and vision!  If all goes as planned, approximately 3 months from today, we will be having babies!!!!